#It’s shameful

[cyarsk52-20]

Me waiting w🍿to see Not Like Us go #1 again bc Aubrey decided to be a crybaby & call the pOleeece on a BOP.

That is so anti-hip-hop and rap like this is the least anti-hip-hop ever

I never seen this level of embarrassment in 25 going on 26 years of my life .

wasn't there film of him calling someone a 'fragile opp' last night? I've nvr in my old-as-Hip-Hop life seen a 'rapper' call the pOlice on the Peoples' Champ in a rap battle #notabeef

That’s not real hip-hop. That’s Karen like behavior.

[allofuswantgwinam]

i don’t really get the world. there’s a whole group of people getting murdered and I see more people mad about Beyoncé’s country album. make it make sense. is this really where we’re at? y’all mad at Beyoncé’s country music but not mad about a fucking genocide. right. go off ig

[adamarks]

Time to reread rosebud boy and rip my hair out over how horny Simon is

[magnusbae]

In case you were wondering why Spotify Wrapped sucks balls this year, and more importantly doesn't have any genre data:

Can you hear the sound of bells? That's because they're clowns. 🤡 🛎

[leresq]

"gee I wonder how I will transfer this information reliably across long distances"

the trustworthy telecommunications dish:

[rhinco]

"scythes are impractical as a weapon" ok but does anything else have the Cunt. i think not

[clickityweasel]

had a real life "and everybody clapped" moment and im still reeling. spent the rest of the ride comparing butterfly pics with the old lady next to me trying to identify it

[canisalbus]

✦ Pebble ✦

[deansbisexualflannel]

[grungekitty-77]

Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.

It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.

Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.

Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.

Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)

Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!

You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!

If you want it in a simple phrase:

You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.

[hiroshotreplica]

idk if im actually bi or nit but i have an 8 am class tomorrow cant worry about that

[bookshelfdreams]

x

[jazz-the-writer]

I’m STILL writing fan fiction

i want 60 thousand votes by next thursday

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

The math just adds up!